I had a sports psychologist professor in university who specialized in sports aggression. I wonder what he would say about the BYU ladies’ soccer game against the University of New Mexico on Nov. 5, 2009. I played a lot of high school sports and college basketball. I’ve seen a lot of aggressive play, but nothing I experienced comes close to what happened during this soccer game. BYU’s Carly Payne had a slugfest with NM’s Elizabeth Lambert. During the game Lambert moved in close behind Payne. Payne did not take kindly to Lambert being on her back so she gave Lambert a subtle no-look, reverse Bruce Lee elbow punch. Lambert responded with a Karate blow to the back. During another play while Payne was chasing the ball, Lambert came in from behind with a “You’re going down, sucker!” slide check. During another play Lambert delivered a Kung Fu sideways punch to Payne’s face. Nasty. And just to prove that Lambert was taking on all comers, she took down BYU’s Cassidy Shumway by yanking on her pony tail. I know what my sports psychology professor would say. He would invoke the Frustration-Aggression Hypothesis, which is that people get aggressive when they are frustrated from reaching a goal (BYU was winning during all this). Then he would say, “Where was the referee?!” The ref made no calls during these rough plays. Fortunately the league did not miss the rough play. It suspended Lambert indefinitely. Hopefully she will learn her lesson and return a better player. Now that you’ve seen the still shots, watch the full video. CommentsI read about the New Mexico student somewhere else, I didn't know it was against BYU. I am glad that the league came down on Lambert and punished her for her unsportsman like conduct. It's too bad more leagues wouldn't react the same way to the same kind of conduct of their players. I think sports would be a lot more fair and competitive.
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Dave C. 11/07/2009 09:41
I think the ref let things get too carried away. I know that sometimes they approach games with a sort of "Let 'em play" mentality, but it went too far in this crucial game."
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Stan 11/07/2009 10:44
I play hockey. Nuff said... =:)
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Justin 11/08/2009 12:10
The ref did let it go too far, but I'd like to date that chick...lol.
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JJ 11/09/2009 01:42
#7 deserved everything she got, she intentionally elbowed, illegal grabbed and side stepped #15. #21 tugged on #15's shorts (illegal) and also previously verbally harassed her.
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Dave C. 11/09/2009 09:08
Justin,
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Dave C. 11/09/2009 09:22
JJ,
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peggy 11/09/2009 12:15
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peggy 11/09/2009 12:22
Wow. She got what she deserved. The byu player deserved a penalty for the elbow, but Eliz. Lambert is a bully bad sport. And yes, where were the refs.?? When there is risk for real injury to a player, not just emotional playing, they should've red carded immediately. The refs should be reprimanded also for their lack of officiating. This is inexcusable. Again, what kind of example is this sending to the younger players? Hopefully, in the end, it will be to play clean or pay a very hefty price. The league needs to come down hard on her, the team coaches, and refs. for allowing it to happen!!
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Joni 11/09/2009 12:42
This is rediculous. If this is how sports are going to continue, my kids are not playing on any teams. What happened to just having fun? Great example this girl is sharing. What a little snot. I hope Cassidy is alright. That poor girl.
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Tom 11/09/2009 18:09
The short video clip available here certainly shows UNM's #15 in a bad light. I think it also shows BYU's #7 and #21 in a bad light- they provoked a response, and got more than they expected it when it came. It would be interesting to have seen the rest of the game, and to know the history of prior meetings between the teams. As a parent, I've told my son, and my daughter, not to put up with intimidation by other players. If the Ref won't make a call, you have to stand up for yourself. As a player, if an opponent grabbed my crotch, there is no telling what I'd do. Pulling a pony tail might be the most reasonable response. One thing for sure, people will think twice about messing with Lambert again. Coaches who recommend trash talking and other ways of getting into an opponents' head need to beware- you don't really know what will happen, and you might get somebody hurt. Yeah, Lambert got kicked off the team, and BYU is in the Final. Was that result worth ruining a young woman's soccer career and risking a significant neck injury? I'm not saying Lambert's punishment is too severe. I am saying I hope the players remember you poke a hornets' nest, you might get stung...
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Jack 11/09/2009 21:42
That kind of rough-housing--the elbowing, the grabbing, etc.--is completely "normal" -- though it may be illegal. You can't tell me that Lambert never engages in that kind of horseplay. In fact, any defender who rides up someone's behind deserves a dig in the ribs. The idea that BYU provoked it all silly, IMO.
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Dave C. 11/10/2009 09:40
Jack,
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Connie 11/10/2009 11:11
It's one thing for Carlee to nudge away someone who was too close on her back but Elizabeth is a psychopath. Under what circumstances is it ever Okay to karate chop someone in the neck, or punch in the back, or to grab someone's pony tail and slam her head to the ground. Hopefully, Elizabeth will be banned forever. And I love the look on Carlee's face at the end of the video when she's pointing to the score!
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Sami 11/10/2009 23:59
I heard great arguments from both sides; I didn't see the whole game so I really can't make a complete educated opinion... However, if the other team was doing some trash talking, then they need to take the consequences to their actions. Same goes for Lambert, she needs to know how to keep her head in the game and not get bullied by some petty name calling. One can only take so much before they react with violence. Which I am sure was the desired response and happens in all sports; it’s a tactic and if it can be used to an advantage then it will be used. Remember the 2006 World Cup? You can only take so much taunting before you head butt someone in the chest.
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Mike 11/13/2009 10:38
Where were the referees and where was Lambert's coach. The Bruce Lee Karate chop happend IN FRONT OF UNM's bench and two of her team mates clapped/cheered in approval of what she did. Fire Kit Vela and find out who her team mates were who cheered and suspend them also. Poor quality soccer and poor quality refereeing and coaching
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Rachel 11/14/2009 08:39
WAIT! I'm confused! So it wasn't just one New Mexico player who needs anger management? It was one NM player doing rudee things to MULTIPLE byu players and the byu players did some stuff back? Please correct me if I'm wrong.
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Rachel 11/14/2009 08:40
rude
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ProRef 11/15/2009 16:47
Here is the analysis of what we see:
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Dave C. 11/16/2009 10:13
ProRef,
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mike jones 11/18/2009 17:54
She's hot, I'd date her.
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iggy 11/18/2009 19:06
mike jones your an idiot. she's a horible person. how is Cassidy Shumway's ?
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the way the video is put together is very misleading to watch. Proref seems to think that #13 is getting the yellow card for tripping when in fact the card is for #15. #13 steps between #15 and the ref to keep her teammate from receiving a red card on top of the yellow for mouthing off to the ref. It's too bad that the video does not show blatant fouls on the other side too.
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